“Soapies has blown me away with more than just the beautiful people that attend. This was my first real play party with my partner and we loved it. The environment is welcoming and the people are genuine and kind. When we arrived we were full of nervous excitement and free of expectations, we were greeted with love and respect by all members there, people came to just talk and to get into a lot of fun play. I love the lightheartedness of this group and am excited to go every month!”

- Jean

“What I love about Soapies is that it’s not just about the parties, but also about community where members care to keep in touch and share themselves authentically. The atmosphere is welcoming, respectful, and judgement-free. There is no shortage of fun experiences and Soapies are always down to make fantasies come true! I so look forward to the parties and always check the dates to see whether I can make it to at least one of the festivities each month 💜”

- Eva

“After nearly a year in San Diego without feeling a real sense of community, my first Soapies Party changed everything. The level of care and detail that goes into these events is unmatched. Everyone is incredibly kind and welcoming, creating a safe space where people can fully embrace their kinky selves without fear of judgment just pure support and fun. I cant wait for more experiences and connections to come!”

-Sophie

“This group is more than just a play group, it's a community built on love, trust, communication, respect, and exploration. Being a part of this community is a privilege. I am grateful to everyone who brings their light into the community, and especially grateful to the core members for building something so beautiful, and safe. I'm blown away by all the creativity and diversity within the group. I'm excited to see how the group develops, as our friendships strengthen and curiosities expand 🥰”

-Holly

“The Soapies community is everything I had hoped and dreamed for when I began my journey in the lifestyle with my partner. The communication and care taken to host these events is next level. Any concerns or questions are welcomed and answered. The people that make up this community are respectful, friendly and fucking gorgeous. Each event I walk away with new and stronger friends. On top of the great memories made with everyone. 10/10 💦”

-Bryan

“Soapies is such a special place. After going on a whim, I found that this space really just lets you be your weirdest and sexiest self! Despite feeling all kinds of nerves leading up to that first encounter, the moment we walked through the door it was like letting out a breath we’d been holding all day. It was immediately clear we’d be met with respect, kindness, curiosity, and beautiful faces. Since then we’ve had worlds of fun, tried many many new things, made fantastic friends, and have never felt safer letting our freak flags fly. 🫶🏼💋❤️‼️”

-Gaby